Do we really control our lives, no matter how much we are constrained by circumstances, we must make decisions about how to live as life is simply not something that happens to us, we must lead it. One crucial decision regard to finding a partner, perhaps marry and have children, make friends and invest time and emotional energy in maintaining connections. Most of us form such connections without thinking much about it, as love is blind, and attaching ourselves to others come at a cost. This only diminishes our autonomy, but even make us vulnerable. English Poet Laureate Alfred Lord … Continue reading Investing time and emotional energy in safeguarding connections